Relationships

Snapshot of you as a leader

As evolving leaders, it’s important to be both self-aware and inspired. Self-awareness comes the more we know how others perceive us, and the clearer we become regarding our strengths and values.

 

All of us have inner self critics. We… Continue reading

Marriage: The Challenge to Love

Married. A long time. Hmmmmmm……what does that mean?

Patient. Have to be.

Perfect marriage? NO.

A lot of togetherness? NO.

Romance? Sometimes. If we work at it.

Marriage is, I believe, an opportunity to practice unconditional love over and over… Continue reading

A Vision to Shoot for!

Just finished this year’s Vision Board and I am excited. The Vision Board represents new ventures, direction, and most importantly, the people in my life who are vital to these possibilities.

When I first began making Vision Boards,I called them… Continue reading

Making Amends

Do you ever feel as if you are the only one who messes up?

I have a strong personality. And I mess up all the time. Blurt things out. Say something others think is not appropriate (never dirty jokes, but… Continue reading

Diffusing Angry Feelings

We all need good listeners. My dog is a good listener, but he doesn’t ask questions. I need the questions AND the listening.

Sometimes I get upset especially if I feel as if someone diminished me in some way. I’ve… Continue reading

What Relationships Need Attention?

My beautiful, vibrant friend, Mashelle Odom, died Saturday. Younger than I, she had a double stroke, then her kidneys shut down. Within  5 days, she was gone. Most of us had no idea she was hiding an illness.

 

Just… Continue reading

What is Your Purpose?

So what is your purpose?

Two years ago, my biggest challenge was how to resist the call of computer games.

“Just one more,” I would tell myself, aware that I was falling prey to an addiction.

Playing computer games was… Continue reading

How to Create a Happier You

There is a simple exercise, when made a daily habit, can significantly attribute to one’s sense of well-being and happiness.  In his book  59 Seconds, Think a Little, Change a Lot author Richard Wiseman  suggests keeping a small, journal… Continue reading

How to Jump Higher in Life

We all have a giant blind spot…an area of our lives where we can’t see the underlying motivation, saboteur, or mental block. We continue, day after day, making decisions and operating from a dysfunctional place.

I have recently gone through… Continue reading

Who is Missing from Your WorkLife?

Bias. Discrimination. The “isms.” Exclusiveness. I am guilty.

For years, I have avoided, excluded, and overlooked men as clients, vendors, and peers. I had major trust issues, with only a few exceptions. Yes, I had had some bad experiences early… Continue reading